Sometimes we wonder how are our friends doing miles away. Are they doing great?going through some troubles? It may sound weird if we would be sending them each a message, well might not be to others. But few of those friends in your mind now will surely feel you somehow. Worried. Quite a surprise at some times when you both send a Hello at the same time. Gladly spell out their troubles knowing that a friend like you would wholeheartedly listen. Few are still holding it in, while you waiting worriedly for them to open up. After quite some time, your friend will get back at you and tells you "I am fine now, I'm finally over it", while others may still be on that chaotic state and haven't figured out how to tell you. Still, you keep waiting while whispering a prayer that your friend would somehow resolve it and step out of that trouble in one piece or get help at least. At some point, we do trust our friends. They would not be keeping something from us unless they know how to get over it soonest. Not letting us know and asking our help doesn't mean we are not trustworthy, instead let us always give our full encouragement and support to whatever they have in mind. Letting your friend feels that you would be around no matter what is already a great thing. Just know that they have their own reasons and respect for being quiet. True friendship requires a lot of trust, respect, understanding and empathy.
Trusting even in not knowing all the facts. We always trust our friends despite how people tell us not to. A friend may fail sometimes but it doesn't outnumbered those times they have trust-worthily done for us. Even if we are mad at a friend, still we trust that he or she would not be doing something to break it. See how ironic friendship does to us? It enables us to give our trust without reasons.
Respect even in not requiring it. Our friends automatically earns our respect even without asking. Just by looking at their faces, hearing their cracked voices, a pinch or a tight grip maybe we all surely know what to do next. With distance, just seeing their emotional posts in social medias, remaining quiet for a few days and not telling you about it would simply crashed your heart but still you give the respect that you think they needed the most.
Understanding even in the absence of reasons. We normally understands something we are aware of except when it is a friend. Even when most people don't understand the choices our friends made, still we openly declare that we do understand and fully support them. Your friend may at times lose track of you or you not having much time keeping in touch but still both of you understood it. But when you get the chance to talk it would always feel like night does not exist. Everything is spontaneous as it was, sometimes even better. Every actions our friends do, regardless if we have been informed or not, outcome maybe bad or good to us or to them, in the end we still choose to understand behind it.
Empathizing even in an unwanted circumstance. Life is not always as sweet as we have in our dreams while might not be as worst as to those with others in reality. We always wanted only the best among the choices, for us and to our friends but we cannot manipulate their minds and vise versa. We would somehow made wrong choices. They would eventually made it, sometimes unknowingly. As a friend we find our selves in their shoes even at the things we hated the most. Still we choose to do it, without someone asking us to do it. Might not be a necessity to accept it but just being there helps us better understand why they did it. It made us becomes aware of the other side and teaches us how to improve our selves and doings as not to allow the other side to prevail. Eventually would lead us to greater happiness.
We all wanted to live a happy life and a trustworthy circle that even a wicked witch could not cast a spell nor a witch doctor to formulate a potion in order to have it. We are bound to create our joys, realize our dreams and strengthen our faith which would allow us to hold and share the happiness that we have. Value those people surrounding us with love and share your kindness to those who are cruel to us. Life has always a lot of surprises that some people's best friend were picked from those bunch of people they hated and vise versa. And they are hugging them now. Hahahahaha
